Genius is genius because there is no reason why a self-limited --- Einstein's special needs in that respect for the soul!
Einstein's unique in that respect have become the soul of genius is the genius
self-limited because they do not need a man in
is we become so-called His consciousness is an illusion. This illusion is our prison, will limit our desires and emotions in a handful of people close to them and our. We have to liberate ourselves from this prison out, broaden our mind, to embrace all living creatures and the whole world of beauty, it is our mission. mm Albert? Einstein
Mozart, Leonardo da Vinci, Walt Disney, and is well known genius Albert Einstein. you may be unknown ordinary people.
So, what makes you stuck in the realm of ordinary people, but also what makes a genius a genius?
7 ~ 12, has a global reputation of the U.S. executive director of NLP University Robert? Di Scholz and his wife Deborah? Bacon? Dilts arrived in Guangzhou, China and from all around the world more than a hundred corporate trainer, psychologist and senior managers a one-week training course the name of the understood as a person's physical and mental patterns. As a school of psychology, NLP's philosophy is that excellent person's physical and mental patterns and different modes of body and mind of ordinary people, and ordinary people who can imitate the physical and spiritual model of excellence to excellence Road.
NLP this school was founded in the 70s of last century, the two founders, Richard? Bandler and John? Gerui De Eriksson by studying the hypnotist, master of family therapy, Satir and gestalt treatment and found a series of Master Pierce valuable physical and mental patterns.
NLP to operable and is known for quick, in just a few decades the rapid development, and the emergence of a series of excellent instructors, Robert ? Dilts is recognized as one of the most creative, most instructors contribution, which is 53 years old, he first came to teach in China.
in the curriculum, he has been to emphasize that: different causes of this difference (Which difference make this difference)? difference? Second, each of us has been the state and bad state of genius, what difference has led us to form these two different states?
found these differences, we can learn a genius strategy. But we are not out of nothing, simply to imitate genius, but genius by imitating the physical and spiritual model to help us consciously into a bad state that we had the best condition.
Dilts concluded many talented physical and mental patterns, and Mozart, Leonardo da Vinci, Walt Disney and Einstein particularly interested in the four days, the purpose of this course is to help students master the four days of the strategy, and learn as a trainer How to help grasp the genius of the strategy of the case.
fear is often the key to
Dilts leading genius that each of us has these two parts of self and soul. self-concern is the living environment around us It is our needs, it has been shouting It is concerned that the whole existence, it is always accompanied by a sense of mission.
reason why ordinary people are ordinary people, the reason is a genius a genius, the core is that ordinary people are stuck in the ego, and their genius is the unity of self and spirituality, they have maintained a spiritual channel. ordinary self is Lianzhan, would often say, The existence of large, but to do this, we must be spiritual channel open. In this regard, modern dance master Martha? have exciting description of Graham:
a share energy, vitality and energy from you and implementation, since ancient times only one of you, this expression is unique. If you get stuck, and it will lose, no longer exists in other ways. the world will lose it. how good it is compared with others, how, and your business. to keep channels open is your business.
the truth or realization and almost every discussion have similar talent, such as Mozart's argument is: I am not from music, the music is coming through me. remain in my memory, I also used to like being told that and let them buzz hh the light my soul, if not to be disturbed, I expanded the theme itself.
Martha? Graham and Mozart's paper is very attractive, but ordinary people how to mimic this genius strategy? in the curriculum, Dilts, a simple exercise:
1) in the meta position (position of the first conversation), training teacher asked the case, he wanted to solve a problem the state is something he can think of a what is the best way.
2) into the once had the best state, and asked the case, in this state, to hear what and see what the body react.
3) back to the meta position, ask the necessary questions.
4) let the case enter the br> 5) return to the meta position, ask the necessary questions.
6) for the case to re-enter the into the students experience is: to achieve r, while in problem state, a fear rising from my legs, then I will worry about the opinions of others, and once others did not recognized me, my fears will be more serious, then I will be more non- know how to do. the best.
this, he said, almost always the fear of self in our card, but can not open spiritual channels. in the state of different problems, fears have different expression, this expression the state is the key to resolve the problem, if it is found that the key to open the channel. Therefore, is the acceptance and transformation. a 20-year history of insomnia, and her best two, one is her in a career as a great breakthrough by the company on behalf of the General Assembly, preached in the whole company the successful experience of their own state when one is four or five years ago, one night, she can sleep soundly once in memory.
When I was a trainer to do the last step exercises she looks into the problem state soon, but I did not any feelings, so when she wanted to return to meta position, I gently stopped her and let her more deeply immersed in the problem state, is not there a deeper look at the key. soon, her tears filled his eyes, she said, she found A shy little girl, extremely low self-esteem, hiding in a corner, afraid to come out.
this fear, that he will not be loved and recognized the little girl is the key to resolving the state of her problem. This is her 20 years ago, the reasons for insomnia. At that time, she suffered a major setback in life, then began to sleep, the image of the little girl showed that she was sleep, because she believes that suffered the setback, she is a the failure of the little girl, no one loves her.
This may be true in her childhood, but for her, now is an illusion, because she has made many outstanding achievements. and, four or five years that did not experience insomnia also told her that she is only valuable as a person, she can not go through any person authorized to have the value of the natural.
So, when she took the double the best experience to pull, to embrace the little girl hiding in the corner, the conversion took place. a moment of time, she burst into tears, and that little girl is no longer hiding in the corner, she took the initiative meet her, to accept the embrace.
Mozart's strategy is to let the joy of those pleasant buzz, and to open the problem of the state, help us not stuck in the fear of self. Sometimes, the problem state too painful, so the case directly from the best state there will be very difficult to question, when Leonardo da Vinci's strategy can be applied. Dilts that strategy is the core part of the Leonardo da Vinci and the overall relationship, he either immersed in the whole United States, but also keep the details of the amazing insight. borrowed this feature Leonardo da Vinci, Dilts from the best state to issue the road cut into several parts, so the case a step further problems from the best state to move closer into the issue in order to achieve the purpose of the state.
to the dreamer, realist and critic their king a space
Disney animation strategies and some of da Vinci's strategy Similarly, he is also the creative process will be cut, but it is not a simple cut, but cut into three relatively independent processes: dreamers, realists and critics.
In fact, we all thought processes are contains three parts, only, our often mixed with three parts, which led to every part of the space are not fully developed. For example, when you look forward to a dream, you will also worry that you can achieve , or even simply to criticize it, this is a delusion; when you try to put a dream into a reality, the critics are often out, you fool, you do not realize this dream; Similarly, you can hardly critics to be a wonderful time, when you say dreamer roles may incite, how could you do this, you're that guy is not imagination; and could incite the role of realist that you will not only Criticism can do, you know how hard I hh
a person's thought processes have such confusion, the process of collective thinking of a team will have this confusion, and Disney's strategy is to these three a part of the cutting, to each part of a separate space, in this space, it can be fully expressed without interference. For example, Disney has a special imagination, but does not allow any criticism.
Dilts Disney's strategy will be further detailed, specific steps are as follows:
1) in the meta position, and the case about a dream;
2) to enter the dream home location, the trainer for the case to fully express his dream, and asked what experience of the case;
3) Back to the meta position to clarify some issues;
4) into the realist position, so that cases develop plans to achieve the dream;
5) Back to the meta position to clarify some issues;
6) into the critic's position, so the case in many ways to discover the lack of dreams and plans;
7 ) Back to the meta position to clarify some issues;
8) to the case around the feelings and experiences emerge automatically.
this exercise of great help to me. My partner is experienced NLP trainer Guangzhou Shujun Lin, and he led me to an important test of my dreams, in the process, I put down everything concern, because I found that as long as I can totally into this dream, all my doubts mm mm that is the fear of self-will naturally resolve, when the dream became completely from the bottom of the call of soul, the real level of doubt are would not exist. This is not to say that I do not need to consider any realistic level, but rather that the more I totally into this dream to reality will gain more levels, but the harvest is just a natural by-product, and if I tried to turn them into the main goal, I feel that I exist leading to greater spiritual channel is stuck. At this time, the more I level in the real struggle, the more stuck too serious, corresponding, my talent was more difficult to play, which further would be more practical level, I struggled, and eventually developed into a vicious cycle.
course this week, I found, when our main goal in life is self- level needs, this struggle will happen. And I also found that the struggle is very common, and often need to self-level into a variety of seemingly noble goal, such as fame, applause, and even the so-called charity efforts, these is no longer a simple material needs, but they are still on in other people's recognition. It is a prison, as the beginning of this quote of Einstein's famous quote, and we are closest to them. the existence of connected, then it will have incredible power.
He helped my mother to recover from terminal cancer
Einstein's theory of physics is very deep, however, found that the Einstein theory is not dependent from abstract logical thinking, but rather an intuitive visual thinking, he said: kinds of theoretical assumptions of the implementation. For example, he was 16, it was assumed that, since I see myself in the mirror, is the result of the propagation of light, then, if I move the speed of light, I can still see his image in the mirror you?
Dilts an exercise designed to allow us to think through the vision, which is also of great help to me. But the biggest inspiration Einstein Dilts is the power of imagination.
28 years ago, Dilts mother's breast cancer recurrence. one two years ago, her one breast was found to have breast cancer, and medical advice to do a radical treatment, will cut off the breast. However, cancer or recurrence, and Not only cancer cells spread to the other breast, ovary and bladder, but also spread to all parts of the body's bone marrow, a tumor on the clavicle and even large enough to hold the bones are cracked.
doctors told her that this is the advanced cancer You have only a few months to live. but we really would like this? Dilts thought, maybe NLP technology can help her, and he personally gave my mother NLP counseling, using Disney's strategy. He asked her mother: is only despair, when no one can not help her. So, he must first wake up the dream to help her mother. So, he continued to ask: dream, she said her life did not complete a mission, her desire to complete her. However, when the position came realist, she said she did not plan, because there is no precedent, to the point where previously ill people dead.
he asked: will they? in your life have no such examples, would have thought that only one result, but in the end find that other results can be achieved.
she thought of some examples, a is Dilts brother, a child was diagnosed as muscle atrophy, but in the end that this is not true, another example Dilts father, he had incurable disease, doctors said he could only live 6 months, but he changed habits of life, and ultimately live for 16 years. There Dilts grandmother, mother grandmother With Dilts, the doctor said, your reproductive system problems, do not force their own children, or your mother will die . However, the grandmother down to the depths of his soul, decided to still try, and ultimately successfully gave birth to Dilts mother, then she had three children, doctors can not explain this thing, but it is occurred.
Through these memories, she opened the boundaries of imagination, she no longer believes that to die is the only possibility, she believes she continued to live in order to complete some of her dreams can come true mission, She also developed around their dream of a viable plan hh Finally, she recovered, and lived for 18 years, until it died 10 years ago. This is the miracle of a doctor can not explain, but it does happened.
Later, she often said: br> This is also a transformation of one of the most terrible state of the transformation to the best.
disease is often self-contradictions embodied the soul and
Dilts is how to do that for? about Albert Einstein The strategy, he said several times, your imagination and create your reality. So, if his mother just want to, we must live, and this will achieve up?
this, Dilts said, If this is the need of self, a self-made from the fear needs, then the miracle will not happen. Similarly, if he gave my mother when NLP counseling, from self-level, I fear my mother die, I must Mother alive, then, this miracle will not happen. To have such a miracle, the key is deep into the soul, to look at, what is stuck in the end result, this most terrible state of cancer occurred.
Scholz said, and not by me realize r. far beyond the expectations of his self. When my mother to live to 10 years, he and his mother went to check the body, perfectly healthy mother, clavicle on the tumor did not, even with X-ray have not see the problem. At that moment, he realized that kiss the earth, to express gratitude, but he has not fulfilled that promise. Now, he decided, always remember Thanksgiving, thanks all.
10 evening, in an interview Dilts, I specifically asked a question: the uncomfortable, This is the body's disease. can be said that each of the symptoms are not part of the self in that l r, but we do not listen to that message, and eventually it had to destructive ways to express. on the mother's disease, Dilts said his understanding was that this is a deep level of internal contradictions, the contradiction between self and soul. the one hand, wants to own her soul, on the other hand, her self- others fear it will lose the love and recognition, this fear will force her to live on someone else. So she's the most fundamental driving force of life was severely repressed, and ultimately, her body with such an extreme way to live France says .
Dilts said his mother this contradiction is the contradiction we all share. a variety of ways of life continue to call us, listen to and respect your soul, if we do this, then we can be a genius.
Guangzhou Daily Author: Wu Zhihong
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